Dropping in to say HI! And introduce myself

Welcome to the forum! The biggest piece of advice I would offer is to let things happen according to the pigs' times, and not yours. Each piggy is different of course, but once I learned to approach them as individuals, they relaxed a bit. One of ours lets me sit by her cage and pet her while she's still in it, and kind of dozes. She was the most skittish of the bunch, and an Aby. But I learned to communicate to her whether it was just petting time or if I needed to pick her up. And I respect when she wants to get down (she licks me, and as long as I put her back in the pen, she never nips).

Another pig loves to be held for hours, but only by my husband. He'll only sit with me for about 20 minutes, max. He's learned to signal when he wants to go back as well. He's special needs (blind, hard of hearing, some paralysis) due to an abusive / neglectful background, but even he has learned to trust.

Those are just a couple of the pigs but I'm sure if you are gentle with them and observe them whenever you can, you'll work it out.

Are your males and females in separate cages?

Oh yes, that how I ended up with five!