I'm not sure where this should be posted to, so if there's a way to move it, or if an administrator feels it needs to be deleted, please delete it. I just wanted to get something off of my chest. It's been bothering me very much lately.
First off, let me start by saying that my guinea pigs are living wonderful lives now, thanks to all of the help, advice, and posts on this forum. The help I have gotten from everyone that participates in this forum has helped me grow as a cavy owner. Thank you, everyone.
But in contrast to that, I have been going through the forums reading over posts that were relevant to my piggies, and I'm starting to notice a lot more hostility towards one another on here. This forum is wonderful and I'd hate to see it go down the drain. When I first joined, I felt that everyone was very judgemental, and that made me afraid to even ask for help with anything. The more I've been on here, yes, the more information I have received, but I feel like the people that have been on here longer, are attacking the newer people. In my opinion, there are better ways of wording what you want/need to say to the original poster, without making him/her feel like they're being attacked. I know I'm only one person out of many that participate on this site, but if things and conversations continue to go the way that they have over the past few months, I will be sad to say that I will have to exclude myself from being a part of this forum anymore.
I apologize again if this is posted in the wrong section, or if I shouldn't have even posted it at all, but I was very frustrated with this and was wondering if anyone else has noticed this, or if it was just me being over-emotional.
First off, let me start by saying that my guinea pigs are living wonderful lives now, thanks to all of the help, advice, and posts on this forum. The help I have gotten from everyone that participates in this forum has helped me grow as a cavy owner. Thank you, everyone.
But in contrast to that, I have been going through the forums reading over posts that were relevant to my piggies, and I'm starting to notice a lot more hostility towards one another on here. This forum is wonderful and I'd hate to see it go down the drain. When I first joined, I felt that everyone was very judgemental, and that made me afraid to even ask for help with anything. The more I've been on here, yes, the more information I have received, but I feel like the people that have been on here longer, are attacking the newer people. In my opinion, there are better ways of wording what you want/need to say to the original poster, without making him/her feel like they're being attacked. I know I'm only one person out of many that participate on this site, but if things and conversations continue to go the way that they have over the past few months, I will be sad to say that I will have to exclude myself from being a part of this forum anymore.
I apologize again if this is posted in the wrong section, or if I shouldn't have even posted it at all, but I was very frustrated with this and was wondering if anyone else has noticed this, or if it was just me being over-emotional.