MaggieMae
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Cavy Slave
- Joined
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- Joined
- Jan 24, 2010
- Messages
- 636
I don't know what just made me think of this but then I decided I would ask.
I never would say anything offensive on purpose. However I met some people once who were from the south. When we were talking I said something about how I was shocked because I expected them to have more of an accent. I mean I've met people who live a LOT closer to me who have a southern accent.
So anyway, I said that and suddenly they were REALLY offended by what I said. I told them I was sorry and I didn't mean it as offensive. Everyone has an accent. I have an accent. I am not 100% sure what you would call it though. I wasn't trying to say that as a negative thing but more of a curious thing. Kind of like small talk I guess. I don't know.
So my question is, what did I say that was wrong? Do people not like it when you ask things like that?
Maybe that is common sense and the dumbest question ever, I don't know, but I guess I don't get it so I need to know.
I never would say anything offensive on purpose. However I met some people once who were from the south. When we were talking I said something about how I was shocked because I expected them to have more of an accent. I mean I've met people who live a LOT closer to me who have a southern accent.
So anyway, I said that and suddenly they were REALLY offended by what I said. I told them I was sorry and I didn't mean it as offensive. Everyone has an accent. I have an accent. I am not 100% sure what you would call it though. I wasn't trying to say that as a negative thing but more of a curious thing. Kind of like small talk I guess. I don't know.
So my question is, what did I say that was wrong? Do people not like it when you ask things like that?
Maybe that is common sense and the dumbest question ever, I don't know, but I guess I don't get it so I need to know.