Hi all, posting for a friend in emergency need for advice, she recently put 2 females together after the quarantine and after allowing them to be next to each other but separated. Now what's happening is the older female is swaying her hips and doing the our sound around the younger newbie, this is going on for 24hrs, no biting, no teeth chattering, the older one just walks past the little one in her bed and does this hip swaying and purring, she also walks in circles around her doing this. The other thing is that the older one chooses not to sleep in her own bed but squeezes in with the little one and sleeps together?! She has done the whole "my food" thing but not to the point where she won't let her eat. They eat together!
I have read through all the pages on behaviour and sounds and I can't understand is this aggression or the love dance thing they do? She just starts around the cage purring then returns to her own bed when she's not in the little ones bed? She did the yawning thing once but was in her own bed and the little one was not in her view so I dought it was aimed at the little one.
My friend did pick up the little one at one point and the older one searched the whole cage for her until she was put back in, so is this bonding or aggression? I forget to mention my friend said when she first put them together the older one licked her a lot, her mouth and bottom end too, another thing she is worried about is that when the older one joins the little one in her bed could she squash her?
Thanks all replies much appreciated, please write to me instead of links as I have exhausted reading them all and I just can't determine if it's aggression or bonding :0)
I have read through all the pages on behaviour and sounds and I can't understand is this aggression or the love dance thing they do? She just starts around the cage purring then returns to her own bed when she's not in the little ones bed? She did the yawning thing once but was in her own bed and the little one was not in her view so I dought it was aimed at the little one.
My friend did pick up the little one at one point and the older one searched the whole cage for her until she was put back in, so is this bonding or aggression? I forget to mention my friend said when she first put them together the older one licked her a lot, her mouth and bottom end too, another thing she is worried about is that when the older one joins the little one in her bed could she squash her?
Thanks all replies much appreciated, please write to me instead of links as I have exhausted reading them all and I just can't determine if it's aggression or bonding :0)