Heidi, what part of the United States are you from? I am guessing a bible belt state, but I think it would help everyone to know where you are coming from. In speaking with you, I do not think you would say anything to intentionally upset anyone, I think you are right-you just have not been exposed to alot of things we discuss here. I'm from Baltimore, MD and I know we are a very liberal-open minded state-there isn't too much predjudice here-it exists but it isn't the acceptable standard-and I love that. I'm glad you joined because I think you could have a whole new "world" so to speak, opened up by staying with the discussions and hearing our many different viewpoints.