I've had my two boys for a little over a year now, and with school and sports, they've become too much. Not only does it stress me out like crazy, but i don't spend nearly enough time with them. They're spoiled with a 4x4 cage, tons of fleece, etc etc. But I'm just not sure I can keep up with them/spend more time. I love them to death, they've already been to 3 homes, and i just feel awful. Im not even sure what I'm asking, it's just a general 'help.' I feel like the work I put in doesn't pay off. They aren't snuggly, aren't cuddly, and don't like being pet unless you catch them... help?