Hi
So this has been a really tough year. In February, one of my two guinea pigs, Snowflake, suddenly became ill. We took her to the vets who prescribed her some medicine. The next morning we awoke to find out she had passed away during the night.
This was a really, really devastating blow, as Snowflake was such a loved little guinea and she had gone downhill so quickly. However I feel like a huge source of comfort for me after Snowflake died was Fudge, our other guinea pig. In the months following Snowflake's death, Fudge developed a cancerous tumor on her leg which kept grew to the point where she eventually couldn't walk at all. It was clear she was in pain so in July we took Fudge to the vets and she was put to sleep - the hardest thing I've ever done.
It's now been almost 5 months since Fudge died and 10 months since Snowflake died, but I still feel as horrible as ever. We had them for 7 years and they really became part of the family. I think about them and miss them every day, and find myself almost forgetting that when I go to visit home from university, they won't be there. I know that we were so lucky that they both lived for 7 years, and neither of them had any health problems until their last year, but I still wish they were with us longer.
How long will it take for me to recover from this? It seems like I'm the only one in my family who hasn't "gotten over" them yet. Anyone else outside the family doesn't get it because they were "just guinea pigs." I'd like to think I've gotten somewhat better, but I haven't - I can't look at photos of them or even really think about them to much without feeling a horrible sense of loss and just an ache in my heart.
Is this a normal way to react to losing your guinea pigs?
So this has been a really tough year. In February, one of my two guinea pigs, Snowflake, suddenly became ill. We took her to the vets who prescribed her some medicine. The next morning we awoke to find out she had passed away during the night.
This was a really, really devastating blow, as Snowflake was such a loved little guinea and she had gone downhill so quickly. However I feel like a huge source of comfort for me after Snowflake died was Fudge, our other guinea pig. In the months following Snowflake's death, Fudge developed a cancerous tumor on her leg which kept grew to the point where she eventually couldn't walk at all. It was clear she was in pain so in July we took Fudge to the vets and she was put to sleep - the hardest thing I've ever done.
It's now been almost 5 months since Fudge died and 10 months since Snowflake died, but I still feel as horrible as ever. We had them for 7 years and they really became part of the family. I think about them and miss them every day, and find myself almost forgetting that when I go to visit home from university, they won't be there. I know that we were so lucky that they both lived for 7 years, and neither of them had any health problems until their last year, but I still wish they were with us longer.
How long will it take for me to recover from this? It seems like I'm the only one in my family who hasn't "gotten over" them yet. Anyone else outside the family doesn't get it because they were "just guinea pigs." I'd like to think I've gotten somewhat better, but I haven't - I can't look at photos of them or even really think about them to much without feeling a horrible sense of loss and just an ache in my heart.
Is this a normal way to react to losing your guinea pigs?