Onetwo
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Cavy Slave
- Joined
- Jun 15, 2009
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- Joined
- Jun 15, 2009
- Messages
- 1,670
My parents arn't/wern't ones for thinking of animals in terms of family members. We buried then in unmarked graves in the woods/backyards and I wasn't allowed to be upset about them passing.
As an adult I now want to honor them in my own way. I am thinking about getting a charm bracelet and some prayer boxes but I cannot decide if I should get one prayer box for all my past pets (I don't have locks of hair, pictures or even remember the names of all the past animals I have lost.)? Or if I should get one for the major animals? I am so torn because if I only get one for the major animals then it feels (to me) that the 48 hours I tried to force feed 4 wild mice after I accidently disturbed the mouse nest as a child is not as significant as the 5 years we had our cat. Or if I lump them all together I feel like I didn't honor them properly.
How did you honor your past/current pets and are there any opinions on what I should do?
As an adult I now want to honor them in my own way. I am thinking about getting a charm bracelet and some prayer boxes but I cannot decide if I should get one prayer box for all my past pets (I don't have locks of hair, pictures or even remember the names of all the past animals I have lost.)? Or if I should get one for the major animals? I am so torn because if I only get one for the major animals then it feels (to me) that the 48 hours I tried to force feed 4 wild mice after I accidently disturbed the mouse nest as a child is not as significant as the 5 years we had our cat. Or if I lump them all together I feel like I didn't honor them properly.
How did you honor your past/current pets and are there any opinions on what I should do?