Just a rant!

[eschimpf]

I hope this is the right spot for this but ARGH! No matter what I say I get a negative - thing. If I agree I get it If I disagree I get it. No matter what I do I get it. Other people say the same thing and they get a + while I get a -. Please tell me what I've been doing right. Is it me? should I just dont post?! I'm so stinking frustrated! *cries* It seems that everyone here hates what I have to say even if I agree with even a mod!

*sigh* *cries some more* Oh well I guess I will just be hated on here and hope that some day I might be one of you and get a + for agreeing with what other people say that get +.

Anyway my rant is done.

[Seonta]

If you provide some links to the threads that you were given a negative rating in someone might be able to answer your question.

[sealion]

Are you talking about this thread ? http://www.guineapigcages.com/forum/...w-what-do.html
I started reading the beginning of it and as I can see you're disagreeing with most of the people who are getting + and thanks.
Or maybe at the end you started changing your mind ? I don't know...
Maybe was it another thread you were talking about ?

[Seonta]

How can you complain about being given negative reviews when you clearly dished them out yourself in that same thread? You can't complain about getting it if you also dished it out.

edit: That would be like this scenario:
dog jumps on you
you jump on dog
dog jumps back on you
you jump on dog
dog jumps back on you...again

and then you think the dog doesn't like you. The truth is you were fighting with the dog.

XD sorry for comparing everyone to a dog... I like dogs myself.

[Paula]

If a person isn't really adding anything to the thread/topic, but is simply stating what's already been said, I'd guess it's more likely to be ranked down than another. Posts that are difficult to understand are also likely to be ranked down.

It's not a matter of people "hating" you or whether or not you agree or disagree with anyone, moderators included. It's a matter of whether or not your posts are helpful and tactful.

My advice would be to lose the attitude and the sense of self importance and try to stop being so combative and your posts might just end up being ranked up instead of down.

[eschimpf]

No I was not talking about the kitchen one as I do understand how that works. I was talking about this one: http://www.guineapigcages.com/forum/...okay-feed.html

But I guess that a person can't even rant with out someone putting a negative comment in. And yes i was just ranting, I was not asking for you to tell me I have a bad attitude and a sense of self importance. I do believe that there is nothing wrong with wanting to help some one out but I guess its now called self importance.

But whatever I guess that no matter how I say anything even a minor rant that wasn't a lets say bad things to me request I'll always feel unliked.

[blackarrow]

Just for the record, comments like you're making in this thread are not increasing your likeability.

[Peggysu]

Originally Posted by eschimpf

But whatever I guess that no matter how I say anything even a minor rant that wasn't a lets say bad things to me request I'll always feel unliked.

Just because some of us don't agree with you doesn't necessarily mean no one likes you. It's part of life. But similar to what someone else said; if you can't take it don't dish it. I also think that you should cruise around this forum a little more to find out what this place is all about.

No one was mean to you, but I always find these "You're all so mean" threads very amusing.

[blessedbeingmom]

Originally Posted by eschimpf

No I was not talking about the kitchen one as I do understand how that works. I was talking about this one: http://www.guineapigcages.com/forum/...okay-feed.html

That was my thread that I started, but I don't know who gave the negatives. Maybe they gave them because I was only asking about the leaves & tops, not the fruit itself? I'm not sure, since I wasn't one of the ones who gave the negative.

[eschimpf]

You know what I give up! *cryies* no matter what I say or do I get tactless post that are hurtful. I hope you are happy. This forum has some very negative people that just like to attack people. YES I am really crying I swear it on my chilrens graves that I am! I hope that karma will come and kick some bums because I never asked to be attacked on this thread. But I guess that doesn't matter. I wish I could say what i really want to but I need this forum to help my guinea pigs and so I will be hurt and bashed for my pigs because trust me I really don't want to be here for me, because that would just be asking to be emtionally abused.

[Peggysu]

Cut the crying honestly. Theres nothing to cry about here.

I'm wondering where you have been emotionally abused?

[wigglesgiggles1]

Well I have concluded that you are extremely sensitive. Maybe don't post for a while until you can cool down. Than if you post something with a real point or question about guinea pigs, your posts wont be rated down.

[eschimpf]

Yes it was piggysu, because I was hoping that being truthful here would show you that you can hurt people by what you say, but I guess I was wrong. I guess it just doesn't matter since I'm just human and not an animal. I guess I have no right to feel anything. And this is just the way I feel. But none of that matters. Thanks to anyone who read this and does feel something in the heart for my feelings, because I hope there is still compation out there.

[blackarrow]

Originally Posted by eschimpf

*cryies* no matter what I say or do I get tactless post that are hurtful. I hope you are happy. This forum has some very negative people that just like to attack people. . . . I hope that karma will come and kick some bums because I never asked to be attacked on this thread. . . . I wish I could say what i really want to but I need this forum to help my guinea pigs and so I will be hurt and bashed for my pigs because trust me I really don't want to be here for me, because that would just be asking to be emtionally abused.

Hmm. Let's see.

Nope, crying and saying people here are abusing you is still not helping your likeability. Go figure.

[eschimpf]

Originally Posted by wigglesgiggles1

Well I have concluded that you are extremely sensitive. Maybe don't post for a while until you can cool down. Than if you post something with a real point or question about guinea pigs, your posts wont be rated down.

Thank you for you help and I don't rant all the time. Yes i can be sensitive but I only get that way when I am being hurt or told mean things. But thank you none the less.

[Peggysu]

Originally Posted by eschimpf

Yes it was piggysu, because I was hoping that being truthful here would show you that you can hurt people by what you say, but I guess I was wrong. I guess it just doesn't matter since I'm just human and not an animal. I guess I have no right to feel anything. And this is just the way I feel. But none of that matters. Thanks to anyone who read this and does feel something in the heart for my feelings, because I hope there is still compation out there.

I don't know what to tell you about your feelings being hurt, but you still didn't show me where you were being emotionally abused?

[eschimpf]

Originally Posted by blackarrow

Hmm. Let's see.

Nope, crying and saying people here are abusing you is still not helping your likeability. Go figure.

And saying thing like that is still not helping me see that I am like even when I am very open about myself.

[wigglesgiggles1]

I never said that you rant all of the time. And you are not being emotionally obused. if you feel that way maybe this forum is not for you.

[eschimpf]

Originally Posted by Peggysu

I don't know what to tell you about your feelings being hurt, but you still didn't show me where you were being emotionally abused?

Why do I have to show you? can't you see that I feel that way, that I feel unliked and picked on by you and others. All i was doing was ranting and the next thing I know I am not even allowed to do that. I Feel I am being emotionally abuse by the way people in this thread have acted to me. But I guess I should just die and not be on this planet since I am such a screw up. Thanks for not being nice and understanding to my feelings.

[eschimpf]

Originally Posted by wigglesgiggles1

I never said that you rant all of the time. And you are not being emotionally obused. if you feel that way maybe this forum is not for you.

No your right its not for me its for my guinea pigs to get a better life.