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Old 02-13-07, 07:05 pm
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"Eventually I bought "Gus" and then a week or so later, I bought his mate, "Maggie" from another PetSmart location."


You bought a male and a female guinea pig and put them together. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to know that the female would end up pregnant in that situation.

It sounds to me like you did it on purpose. Otherwise you wouldn't have put them together or you would've neutered your male guinea pig.

Plus to call him her "mate" sounds to me like you were hoping she would get pregnant.
I was given the wrong information. That's in my first post if you had bothered to read it. And before owning these two, I didn't know the first thing about guinea pigs, so I took the advice that was given to me, which was wrong. I came here hoping to find the RIGHT information, but instead of letting me learn from you, you've made me dislike a very informative website and you've made me less likely to ask for help from anyone else for fear of being treated in the same manner that you've treated me. Congratulations, I hope you're proud of yourself.
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Old 02-13-07, 07:06 pm
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Oh my God, you are so ignorant it really isn't even funny. I can't even reply to what you said, because it's so wrong on so many levels that I am just sitting here dumbfounded! I really am.

I will say this though, I'm sorry you feel that we are personally attacking you. Speaking for myself, I can honestly say I wasn't (& I don't think anyone else meant to either). Maybe we all can be accused of being a little too passionate about these little guys, but since you too have fell victim to their charm - can you really blame us?

Please take the info you find on this site and continue to use it. It can only benefit your pigs...and if you want to forget the rest of us, that's fine. Just don't stop educating yourself - please. I'm literally begging here.
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Old 02-13-07, 07:06 pm
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Regardless of any of this, your ideas that petstores are okay, after all of the FALSE information you've gotten from your PETSMART or PETCO job, you should be a little more open to ideas of adopting or rescuing.

You have sat here and repeatedly bashed rescuing and praised petstore pets, therefore you have made your own bed.
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Old 02-13-07, 07:09 pm
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After this situation as occurred, gemstone, you'd think you'd be a little more open to the things and information we offer here on anti-breeding and pro-rescue.

After all you've been through, now you've got a pregnant guinea pig, and you still are defending petstores and breeding.

Why?!
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Old 02-13-07, 07:10 pm
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Regardless of any of this, your ideas that petstores are okay, after all of the FALSE information you've gotten from your PETSMART or PETCO job, you should be a little more open to ideas of adopting or rescuing.

You have sat here and repeatedly bashed rescuing and praised petstore pets, therefore you have made your own bed.

I haven't bashed anything! I've stated MY opinions! You are absolutely heartless, you know that? Here I am saying that I want to learn about guinea pigs and you are just telling me that I shouldn't be allowed to have any pets and I'm a terrible person...if anyone is 'bashing' it's you. I wish you knew what it was like to be me and to react to what you've said so you know how badly you can hurt someone. Like I said, your manners and kindness have been lavished on the animals and there's none left for human kind.
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I was given the wrong information. That's in my first post if you had bothered to read it. And before owning these two, I didn't know the first thing about guinea pigs, so I took the advice that was given to me, which was wrong. I came here hoping to find the RIGHT information, but instead of letting me learn from you, you've made me dislike a very informative website and you've made me less likely to ask for help from anyone else for fear of being treated in the same manner that you've treated me. Congratulations, I hope you're proud of yourself.

You have already stated in another thread of yours in the introduction section that people were flaming you or "being rude". So I don't blame myself or anyone else for you leaving.
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Old 02-13-07, 07:12 pm
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Ok, who in their right mind wants to travel for 6 hours just to get a guinea pig for their 7 year old daughter who is probably sick anyway from a rescue when you can drive half an hour to a pet store and buy a healthy one?


THAT is the most ignorant thing I've seen on this entire thread and it was posted by YOU.

YOU just BASHED rescuing, while also poking fun at someone who DOES go out of their way to drive MANY hours to save a guinea pigs life. HOW is THAT humane?!
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After this situation as occurred, gemstone, you'd think you'd be a little more open to the things and information we offer here on anti-breeding and pro-rescue.

After all you've been through, now you've got a pregnant guinea pig, and you still are defending petstores and breeding.

Why?!
You haven't OFFERED any information, only bashing. And you're making me feel like Maggie being pregnant is a horrible thing, and you know what? ANY life should be cherished. Except maybe yours right now.

I'm leaving. Keep bashing if you like.
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Old 02-13-07, 07:13 pm
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Speaking of bashing, you have bashed many of the things that THIS very website stands for.
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Old 02-13-07, 07:18 pm
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I was given the wrong information. That's in my first post if you had bothered to read it. And before owning these two, I didn't know the first thing about guinea pigs, so I took the advice that was given to me, which was wrong.
It sounds like you got that female from a GREAT petshop! <yes, that statement is dripping with sarcasm>

What advice or help did you need that you are not getting? I don't recall you asking any questions or looking for help. all you did was introduce yourself and then start touting the wonders of petshops. NOT the best way to start out on a rescue oriented forum don't you think?

How are we supposed to react to someone like you? You come onto this forum and challenge everything we stand for. You cannot win so stop whining about how mean we are.

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Old 02-13-07, 07:22 pm
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Wow. And I actually gave her the benefit of the doubt in her intro thread. Makes me feel kind of silly now that I think about it.
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Old 02-13-07, 07:32 pm
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Well thank you very much for assuming you know me and how I'll act. I thought this forum was for a heated discussion, not a person-bashing. None of you know me. None of you know how I treat my animals. None of you know anything about me at all. And I'm guessing that none of you would expect me to reply to this post while crying, but guess what? I am. I've never been so hurt by strangers for voicing my opinion. When I joined this site yesterday I though it was a Godsend. I thought I would make some new friends and learn more about my pigs. But since I've been here, no one has been nice to me, everyone that has replied to my posts has belittled me, assumed the worst about me, and done everything they can to make me feel like trash just for stating my opinions. I now believe that all your manners and kindness have been lavished on your animals and you've reserved none for anyone else. This is not a ploy for attention. This was me, Ashley, trying to have an adult conversation with some new people that I would've liked to have gotten to know. But as it turns out, this website was just a big waste of time. No one has ever made me feel so horrible.

And not that anyone cares, but I plan on separating the males and females just like everyone tells me to and if I can't afford to keep all the babies, I plan on finding them good homes. Not that it's anyone's business anymore.

I sincerely regret coming here and I hope you treat your other new members MUCH better then you have treated me.
Gemstone, word of advice: Don't bother. If you think they are hard on you on this forum and because you bought unaltered GP's from a petstore, try WORKING for a pet store and posting on here and Guinealynx!! I work for Petco (for now) and have taking a much bigger beating than you have. This site and Guinealynx are pro-rescue and anti-pet store period. If a person doesn't fall in line with their mentality he/she gets chopped down to size right quick. Welcome to cyberland where anyone with a computer can hide behind it and bash people all they want in safety.

These sites are wonderful for providing free care information which I gladly use for my own pigs and share with my customers at work, but their people skills are severly lacking. Don't let it bother you. Either they learn to live with people who don't see everything about pigs their way, OR people will learn to leave these forums alone and go to a different more accepting forum.

Many members on GL are all in a tizzy because I was thinking of re-homing my GP's (long, complicated reasons) and you should SEE the comments they are making!!! Wow!! I didn't realize my life would be under such scrutiny:rolleyes:

As I said, don't discount this forum for the great information, just take the criticisms with a grain of salt and move on to friendlier territory.
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Old 02-13-07, 07:37 pm
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Gemstone, word of advice: Don't bother. If you think they are hard on you on this forum and because you bought unaltered GP's from a petstore, try WORKING for a pet store and posting on here and Guinealynx!! I work for Petco (for now) and have taking a much bigger beating than you have.
Shame on you! You are even worse!!! YOU HAVE KNOWLEDGE and you still do it! Just unforgiveable, I'm sorry.

You want a more "accepting" site? I highly doubt that. I think you want someone to agree with your viewpoint. Plain and simple. And honey? You ain't gonna find it here!!!

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Old 02-13-07, 07:41 pm
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Gemstone, word of advice: Don't bother. If you think they are hard on you on this forum and because you bought unaltered GP's from a petstore, try WORKING for a pet store and posting on here and Guinealynx!! I work for Petco (for now) and have taking a much bigger beating than you have. This site and Guinealynx are pro-rescue and anti-pet store period. If a person doesn't fall in line with their mentality he/she gets chopped down to size right quick. Welcome to cyberland where anyone with a computer can hide behind it and bash people all they want in safety.

These sites are wonderful for providing free care information which I gladly use for my own pigs and share with my customers at work, but their people skills are severly lacking. Don't let it bother you. Either they learn to live with people who don't see everything about pigs their way, OR people will learn to leave these forums alone and go to a different more accepting forum.

Many members on GL are all in a tizzy because I was thinking of re-homing my GP's (long, complicated reasons) and you should SEE the comments they are making!!! Wow!! I didn't realize my life would be under such scrutiny:rolleyes:

As I said, don't discount this forum for the great information, just take the criticisms with a grain of salt and move on to friendlier territory.
Well, this post definitely didn't do anything but further the dramatic antics of gemstone.

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WHERE DID I SAY THAT I INTENTIONALLY BRED THEM?!?? PLEASE point it out to me, because I would love to know where that was mentioned.

I'm new to this. I just got the pigs in December and I was hoping that this site would teach me about them so I could learn to better care for them. But no one has helped me. No one has even been civil to me in stating their retaliations to my post. You all have treated me like and even SAID that I don't deserve to have any pets. You have no idea how badly that hurt me. I'm not going to sit here and be insulted by someone who's assumed every single detail about me without so much as asking a single question. I will cancel my account as soon as possible.

When was I rude to you?
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