Home | Forum | Photo Galleries | Upload Photos | Cages Store | CafePress Store | Testimonials | Search | About Us |

Go Back   Guinea Pig Cages, Care, Store, Photos of Guinea Pigs and More Forum! > Discussions > In Memory Of
Forgot Password? Register

In Memory Of A memorial forum for our special friends as well as grief support for our losses.

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
  #1  
Old 10-09-09, 10:02 am
angiekay's Avatar
Cavy Slave
 
Join Date: Aug 09
Location: North Carolina
Posts: 370   (Post Ranks)
Thank you for that post!: 249
Thanked 48 Times in 28 Posts
No Thanks given: 16
Not Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Not Ranked. Helpful AND tactful post?     
Unhappy OMG, tragic loss (Fred)

I've had Fred for almost 5 months now, he was the sweetest, most well mannered guy, my FIRST pig that I actually got from a CL teenager who no longer wanted him. He was active, playful, and didn't show any signs of illness or anything!!! I found him yesterday when I got hom from work in his hidey house, GONE. I just don't know what could've happened, he was fine, eating as usual, no weight loss that I noticed (I had been weighing him weekly). God, I can't quit crying!! I got so attached to him so quickly, I miss him SO much!!! I'm wondering if the girl I got him from really didn't know how old he was, she was saying 1-2 years old maybe more, but seemed really unsure. I don't know, I just miss my baby!!!
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote Share on facebook
  #2  
Old 10-09-09, 10:17 am
juliaaa's Avatar
Cavy Slave
 
Join Date: Jul 09
Location: Philadelphia, PA
Posts: 127   (Post Ranks)
Thank you for that post!: 22
Thanked 25 Times in 17 Posts
No Thanks given: 2
Not Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Not Ranked. Helpful AND tactful post?     
Re: OMG, tragic loss (Fred)

I'm so sorry for your loss
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
"Thank you, juliaaa, for this useful post," say these 2 members:
angiekay (10-09-09), ferndalezoo (10-13-09)
  #3  
Old 10-09-09, 10:33 am
Paula's Avatar
Pigaholic Extraordinaire
 
Join Date: Jun 07
Location: Pig Nation
Posts: 3,281   (Post Ranks)
Thank you for that post!: 349
Thanked 3,504 Times in 1,216 Posts
No Thanks given: 96
Not Thanked 33 Times in 27 Posts
Neutral  +1 (+1/-0)     
Re: OMG, tragic loss (Fred)

Oh wow, I'm very sorry. One of the really unfortunate things about having pigs as pets is how hard it is to tell that they're sick sometimes.

Please don't blame yourself and know that you gave him a great home with lots of love, even though it was only for a short time.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
"Thank you, Paula, for this useful post," say these 2 members:
angiekay (10-09-09), ferndalezoo (10-13-09)
  #4  
Old 10-09-09, 10:36 am
angiekay's Avatar
Cavy Slave
 
Join Date: Aug 09
Location: North Carolina
Posts: 370   (Post Ranks)
Thank you for that post!: 249
Thanked 48 Times in 28 Posts
No Thanks given: 16
Not Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Not Ranked. Helpful AND tactful post?     
Re: OMG, tragic loss (Fred)

Quote:
Originally Posted by Paula View Post
Oh wow, I'm very sorry. One of the really unfortunate things about having pigs as pets is how hard it is to tell that they're sick sometimes.

Please don't blame yourself and know that you gave him a great home with lots of love, even though it was only for a short time.
Oh Paula, thank you so much! Because I have been beating myself up since yesterday, have slept very little, and can NOT seem to get any work done here today, feeling like there's something I should have noticed or seen or something? Thank you again!!
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #5  
Old 10-09-09, 02:30 pm
princesspoppy's Avatar
Cavy Slave
 
Join Date: Aug 09
Location: East Ireland
Posts: 627   (Post Ranks)
Thank you for that post!: 229
Thanked 146 Times in 78 Posts
No Thanks given: 17
Not Thanked 3 Times in 2 Posts
Not Ranked. Helpful AND tactful post?     
Re: OMG, tragic loss (Fred)

Oh sweetie i am so sorry. There has been many passings the past few weeks,hamsters,cats and piggies. They are all together on the other side. Safe and happy.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
"Thank you, princesspoppy, for this useful post," says:
angiekay (10-09-09)
  #6  
Old 10-09-09, 03:11 pm
Duffinvt's Avatar
Cavy Star
 
Join Date: Sep 09
Location: Vermont
Posts: 204   (Post Ranks)
Thank you for that post!: 21
Thanked 33 Times in 24 Posts
No Thanks given: 2
Not Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Not Ranked. Helpful AND tactful post?     
Re: OMG, tragic loss (Fred)

I am sorry for your loss. I am glad he had a loving home with you in his last months.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
"Thank you, Duffinvt, for this useful post," says:
angiekay (10-09-09)
  #7  
Old 10-09-09, 04:37 pm
wigglesgiggles1's Avatar
Cavy Slave
 
Join Date: Dec 08
Location: piggy paradise
Posts: 441   (Post Ranks)
Thank you for that post!: 403
Thanked 74 Times in 45 Posts
Blog Entries: 2
No Thanks given: 176
Not Thanked 6 Times in 6 Posts
Not Ranked. Helpful AND tactful post?     
Re: OMG, tragic loss (Fred)

Awww! I feel so bad. Don't blame yourself. You gave him the best home.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
"Thank you, wigglesgiggles1, for this useful post," says:
angiekay (10-09-09)
  #8  
Old 10-09-09, 05:19 pm
WheekiePiggy123's Avatar
Cavy Slave
 
Join Date: Jun 09
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 55   (Post Ranks)
Thank you for that post!: 22
Thanked 23 Times in 12 Posts
No Thanks given: 1
Not Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Not Ranked. Helpful AND tactful post?     
Re: OMG, tragic loss (Fred)

I'm so sorry for your loss!! I teared up just reading this. I lost my piggy Lily after only 8 months of having her (I was also very attached). Piggies are very good at hiding any symptoms of being sick so don't blame yourself, you saved him from someone who didn't want him and loved him so much more. Just think about how happy you made him in those last few months.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
"Thank you, WheekiePiggy123, for this useful post," says:
angiekay (10-09-09)
  #9  
Old 10-09-09, 05:28 pm
pigsmakemesmile's Avatar
Cavy Star
 
Join Date: Aug 07
Location: In beautiful Stroudsburg Pa
Posts: 765   (Post Ranks)
Thank you for that post!: 33
Thanked 102 Times in 66 Posts
No Thanks given: 0
Not Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Not Ranked. Helpful AND tactful post?     
Re: OMG, tragic loss (Fred)

I'm so very sorry for your loss. I can't imagine for the life of me the feeling of coming home to find a beloved friend gone.
Fred was so fortunate to have had an owner who provided a wonderful home and lots of pig-love.

When my pig passed away last summer, it took me a while to get thru his passing...it was like loosing a human child. The pain was unbearable...but with the support of family, friends and members of the forum, I was able to get through it. Before my husband and I buried Chubb's, I took some clippings of his fur and toenails, his blanket and kept them aside so I have something of him tangible to touch. I don't think the grieving ever fully goes away...I still grieve for him and anytime I see his picture, I cry. Your blessed as God gave him to you to care for him...he could have gone to anyone, he came into your life and for a special reason only God knows.

I'm really sorry Angiekay that your Fred has passed on, you'll be in my thoughts. I wish I could be there to give you my shoulder...hugs from me.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
"Thank you, pigsmakemesmile, for this useful post," says:
angiekay (10-09-09)
  #10  
Old 10-09-09, 05:47 pm
angiekay's Avatar
Cavy Slave
 
Join Date: Aug 09
Location: North Carolina
Posts: 370   (Post Ranks)
Thank you for that post!: 249
Thanked 48 Times in 28 Posts
No Thanks given: 16
Not Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Not Ranked. Helpful AND tactful post?     
Re: OMG, tragic loss (Fred)

Oh, thank you to everyone for your words of encouragement and everything, I was hesitant to even make this post, as I knew it would be hard reading through the replies, and it is, it's just going to take awhile for the pain to subside. I see his pictures everywhere, I only have like 1000 of them.

I can't even find the words to extend my appreciation for this forum, and all of your kinds words, I mean other people just don't "understand" being so "attached" to a gp like a regular pet, I don't have any real friends that would even begin to understand like my family of gp lover's here does!!! Thank you!
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
  #11  
Old 10-09-09, 05:50 pm
akstrohm's Avatar
Cavy Slave
 
Join Date: May 08
Location: Madison, WI
Posts: 1,857   (Post Ranks)
Thank you for that post!: 87
Thanked 383 Times in 264 Posts
No Thanks given: 2
Not Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Not Ranked. Helpful AND tactful post?     
Re: OMG, tragic loss (Fred)

He might not even have been sick--it could have been a heart issue or another unforeseeable problem. I'm very sorry for your loss; he sounds like a great pig. You'll feel better with time!
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
"Thank you, akstrohm, for this useful post," says:
angiekay (10-09-09)
  #12  
Old 10-13-09, 04:46 pm
GizzyandMe's Avatar
Cavy Slave
 
Join Date: Aug 09
Location: Garden Route, South Africa
Posts: 216   (Post Ranks)
Thank you for that post!: 86
Thanked 116 Times in 40 Posts
No Thanks given: 7
Not Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Not Ranked. Helpful AND tactful post?     
Re: OMG, tragic loss (Fred)

God made silver and God made gold,
God made Fred for Angie to hold.

God made bread and God made cheese,
God made Fred for Angie to squeeze.

God made jam and God made jelly,
God made Fred with a tickly belly.

God made sunshine and God made rain,
God took Fred before the pain.

God made rivers and God made trees,
God's love will bring your sorrow ease.

As I have read so much about Fred this feels like loosing a pen friend! Lots of luv and hugs to u Angiekay!
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
"Thank you, GizzyandMe, for this useful post," says:
angiekay (10-13-09)
  #13  
Old 10-13-09, 04:53 pm
princesspoppy's Avatar
Cavy Slave
 
Join Date: Aug 09
Location: East Ireland
Posts: 627   (Post Ranks)
Thank you for that post!: 229
Thanked 146 Times in 78 Posts
No Thanks given: 17
Not Thanked 3 Times in 2 Posts
Not Ranked. Helpful AND tactful post?     
Re: OMG, tragic loss (Fred)

Quote:
Originally Posted by Grandma View Post
God made silver and God made gold,
God made Fred for Angie to hold.

God made bread and God made cheese,
God made Fred for Angie to squeeze.

God made jam and God made jelly,
God made Fred with a tickle belly.

God made sunshine and God made rain,
God took Fred before the pain.

God made rivers and God made trees,
God's love will bring your sorrow ease.

As I have read so much about Fred this feels like loosing a pen friend! Lots of Liv and hugs to u Angela!



Omg....pass me a Kleenex. Thats so lovely.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
"Thank you, princesspoppy, for this useful post," says:
angiekay (10-13-09)
  #14  
Old 10-13-09, 06:02 pm
Tessa Bea's Avatar
Cavy Star
 
Join Date: Sep 09
Location: Olympia, WA
Posts: 442   (Post Ranks)
Thank you for that post!: 307
Thanked 64 Times in 46 Posts
Blog Entries: 6
No Thanks given: 26
Not Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts
Not Ranked. Helpful AND tactful post?     
Re: OMG, tragic loss (Fred)

I'm so sorry for your loss! It's so tough when you don't have time to say goodbye...
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
"Thank you, Tessa Bea, for this useful post," says:
angiekay (10-13-09)
  #15  
Old 10-13-09, 08:57 pm
angiekay's Avatar
Cavy Slave
 
Join Date: Aug 09
Location: North Carolina
Posts: 370   (Post Ranks)
Thank you for that post!: 249
Thanked 48 Times in 28 Posts
No Thanks given: 16
Not Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Not Ranked. Helpful AND tactful post?     
Re: OMG, tragic loss (Fred)

Quote:
Originally Posted by GizzyandMe View Post
God made silver and God made gold,
God made Fred for Angie to hold.

God made bread and God made cheese,
God made Fred for Angie to squeeze.

God made jam and God made jelly,
God made Fred with a tickly belly.

God made sunshine and God made rain,
God took Fred before the pain.

God made rivers and God made trees,
God's love will bring your sorrow ease.

As I have read so much about Fred this feels like loosing a pen friend! Lots of luv and hugs to u Angiekay!
Awwwww, my gosh, that was beautiful and I can hardly see through the tears, thank you so much, this poem fits my Fred most definetly!! Hugs to you, are are so sweet for writing that for me!!!! Hugs, Hugs, Hugs
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Reply

  Guinea Pig Cages, Care, Store, Photos of Guinea Pigs and More Forum! > Discussions > In Memory Of

Bookmarks

Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On


 

Copyright ©2000 - 2009, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
SEO by vBSEO 3.3.0 RC1, vBulletin 3.8.1
Copyright ©2005 All Enthusiast, Inc., PhotoPost PHP vB3 Enhanced
Copyright ©2000 - 2008, Teresa Murphy, Cavy Spirit & Guinea Pig Cages. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED.
Website by www.CloudwiseConsulting.com
Page generated in 0.33865 seconds with 28 queries