She took half of the kitchen

[RyanR]

Ericia finally moved out everything today. However, she took half of the kitchen with her. I know a lot of stuff was her's but I have NO COOKING POTS! She just left me the frying pans and one skillet. The cupboards are empty and so are several other appliances. To really make matters more interesting, she's moving in with the guy she cheated on me with. You want to know why? Here's the journal entry I made a copy off. I'm sorry but I need to vent.

Personal journal entry removed.

[Percy's Mom]

Ryan - Be mad and vent if you want, but do not post her personal journal entry. She may have done you wrong, but regardless, she still deserves a bit of privacy. Erica doesn't know us, and it's not fair to photocopy and post her journal for strangers to read.

[CF#5]

It was HIS journal.

[Percy's Mom]

Believe me, it wasn't. It was her thoughts, in her journal, with her signature at the end.

[RyanR]

I'm sorry.

[wiggley_narco]

Dude I totally understand.... that really sucks. My ex-boyfriend put me $5000 in debt AND took just about everything when we split. I don't think I need to go into the details of what I think of him. Sorry things aren't going so good right now.

[wendymphx]

Nice to see that people can come here and share even if it doesn't involve pigs... she didn't take the piggies, did she?!!!

We've all had our experiences or are going thru them now. It does get better ~ learn something from the whole experience.

I know I would have loved to have had a place to completely trash my ex, just so no one else would have to experience what I did. Then I realized he probably thought the same and his next will have to learn on her own!

This is why I got so completly involved with my two girls, my pig Skittles and my dog Chloe. Chloe has since been put down due to old age and Skittles now has 3 cagemates, since my new sweetie has been bitten by the piggie bug!!!

[RyanR]

I'm not going to defend her for what she did. I will say that it does take two to screw up a relationship. Mine was getting to comfortable and using paying for the wedding ourselves to be reasons for not going out as much. Her part is not telling me how she feels because she can't do that. She always told me she can't talk about her problems. And when I asked her questions, she couldn't answer them because she didn't have answers to them. Which made her clam up more.
However, I did what she wanted me too do but in the end it still wasn't enough. In the end I do feel more of the victim and she even admitted she was more to blame than me.

[cavy-cool-crazy]

I'm sorry things are so rough now Ryan. Relationships can be so tricky to work out.

[QuackXP]

That sucks dude. I to was on the receiving end of a cheating girlfriend (yes I brought my fair share of issues to the relationship, but her solution and lies where no way to handle it) and it was no picnic. Try and remember that the pots and pans are just stuff, it can be replaced. A new set of basic no frills cooking pots and pans can be had at Target pretty cheap. Focus more on getting on with your life than what is missing in your home/apartment.