This is how a day at my school is.

[Fluffy_Guinea]

Well I came here since you all give great advice and lately I have been getting very annoyed with my best friend she broke her arm on my trampoline a few months ago and goes on and on about it, that makes me feel pretty guilty even though it wasn't my fault. Well I was joking around with her like I was going to shut her locker and I wasn't and she grabbed her huge math book and hit me in the face with it it didn't cause a nose bleed or break my nose which it could have. I'm still pretty mad since I was joking and then we give her rides home I told my mom and she kept saying I was trying to shut it on her fixed arm which she makes it sound like it's still broken. That made me even madder since I wasn't and I think she was trying to get me in trouble or something because I said I wasn't I was joking and she said I was trying to. Good thing my mom stepped on or I might have started a yelling match I have quite the temper. She makes fun of everyone and is basically not a very nice person even though she is joking. Oh she laughed when I started yelling at her for hitting me in the face with the math book. I sometimes wonder why I'm her friend we have been friends for three years and we have a very long history of fighting and I'm sure it's going to start up again if she keeps being the way she is. I mean if she hits me in the face with anything else I swear I'm going to punch her right in the face...

[babybunny]

It sounds like you need to step back and re-evaluate your friendship with this person. Friends should bring out the best in each other, not the worse. Being in an abusive relationship (mental, physical, emotional) is not a good one to be in. I had a "best friend" that would constantly humiliate me in front of others and one day, enough was enough. I quit her cold turkey, even though we were joined at the hip practically, and I never regretted it. It was like a weight had been lifted off me, and to a degree the relationship had become that, a smothering damaging weight. Best of luck in your decision making.

[Fluffy_Guinea]

I know I can't even trust her I have before with some secrets and she told everyone. My best friend who I had a crush on two years ago and I todl her about it and she told him it didn't ruin are friendship me and his but it could have now were just friends we don't have any feelings for eachother. I'm just really torn should I stay and just take it or tell her enough is enough and stop hanging out with her I'm just really confused I've actually did it before she just manages to guilt trip me into being her friend. She actually took me and my friends to the office so we could talk about it worked but didn't last long we fought again then became friends again. Today we argued more then we have been this year I just really need help with deciding.

[babybunny]

The afore mentioned best friend did something similar to me. I had this guy who would rather stalk me, and it creeped me out. Well my friend being who she was thought it was hilarious to tell him I liked him. It was one of the things leading to the breaking up of our friendship.

The guilt trips, well its another thing she uses for control and manipulation. It a decision you had to make yourself. However, I will stress again being in an abusive (and controlling) relationship is never a good thing. Hope things get better. *hugs*

[Fluffy_Guinea]

Thanks I'm on the phone with my other best friend the one I had a crush on he does not like her at all either. The thing is I have fun with her at school and stuff but then I think about it and she's being a really big jerk to everyone.

Here's an example of her guilt tripping me, we got into a igiht and we were arguing and then two of my other friends kind of chased her away and she left and went over to one girl who she always made fun of and called fat. The girl being nice comforted her amd crap but thats when she took us to the office and she had been crying I guess and we all made up. Then I guess the girl who was comforting her called one of my other friends a so we all got riled up since with me you mess with my friends you mess with me. So went to go talk to her and my friend started yelling at her which was horrible since the poor girl probably had no idea what was going on. She guilt tripped me by basically crying her eyes out and then taking us to the office when I still didn't want to be her friend.

Sorry for ranting It just feels good to be able to let it all out.

[lovepigs]

Well you need to be the better person. Although it was very rood. I would tell her you can't be friends with her because she isn't being a friend at all. Just be the better person and don't do anything that will harm or get you in trouble.