OK small update but a good one! I got a hold of the friend of mine who might have some way of helping me. Her cousin works with the board of ed as a pyschometrist. She unfortunately cannot test Ethan because it is a work conflict but she is willing to speak to me about what is going on and give me as much information as she can.
Then this morning, Ethan's paediatrician called in regards to the letter he is writing to the school to hopefully bump him up the list. We had an AMAZING talk. He agreed that Ethan's meds should be adjusted and that in the meantime (while we wait for this testing) he should be referred to a child developmental specialist. YEAH! So next week when I see him we will discuss the situation further and he will make that referral.
It was great. I didn't have to fight or argue. He is totally on board with me and it feels so great to know that he is on my sons side in all of this.
No whether or not Ethan actually has aspergers will remain to be seen. I hope and pray that he doesn't. I believe something other than the ADD is definately going on however. At least now we are one step closer to finding out what is going on in my little boys head and getting him the help that he needs.
Thanks for being there and getting me through the last few days guys. I can finally see some light at the end of the tunnel!