I totally understand that cavyspirit. I think you all do an amazing job here and if most of those who feel insulted or stomped on would just look at who is doing the insulting rather than blaming it on the site, things would probably be a lot easier for you as admins and moderators. I think those who are adults will reason rather than attack. And I am sure many who do the attacking, do not feel they are doing so, but rather giving advice.
And I am not trying to insult anyone, because I feel many of those who do overdo it are great
cavy owners and great members, but there is a right way and a wrong way to give advice.