[hueyeats]

I have an easy parallel...

You can have all the freedom of speech in your own house, your own site. But you have to "own" it.

When you go to visit a club house/gym etc. because they contain hobbies you like, you honor their ways and rules as respected because it is not your house. Just a membership place that even if you paid for that membership & have certain priviledges, does not necessarily mean you can have "freedom of speech" as you like.

I belong to a paid gym membership myself and I remember in the policies that even though I paid to use that facilities, certain behaviours (speech, actions or otherwise) if deemed unacceptable will have my membership revoked!

So, do not be mad about "freedom of speech"... just respect that this site is not "your" house, you do not "own" it. You'd be OK with everything.