Mineral oil is sold where other laxatives are sold in any pharmacy type area of most stores. Just FYI.
And as for cleaning your boys, I had the same problem - not wanting to hurt them, etc., but once I flipped them over and actually looked at them and their, eh, parts, it was pretty clear what to do and where. Maybe just examine them?
I know I personally was afraid they would feel violated but mine at least tolerated it pretty well and as far as I know none of them are seeking any kind of therapy.
