[Ly&Pigs]

Not all abbreviations are chatspeak. We allow some abbreviations here like pm=private messages and others but when we are referring to chat speak we mean more like r for are and u for you and things like that.

We are strict because this is an adult based forum and to be able to help you better we want to be able to clearly read the posts. If we can't understand what you are asking either via use of chatspeak, poor grammar, bad spelling, etc., then we can't help you like we should. This is not a fluff filled cotton candy forum.

Things in astericks would be considered actions not chatspeak.