I applaud you for holding us to high standards. Chatspeak is fun and has it's place. Using correct grammar is like exercise for the mind. Language is so enjoyable. There is satisfaction in using language and it's grammatical rules in a way that clearly communicates your thoughts.
I am sure that you extend grace to those learning the English language. This is a crazy language with many spellings and rules from various other languages shaken into it.
Isn't "pm'd" chat speak?
